NO LAWFUL MARRIAGE/DIVORCE = HELL FIRE

*MAYBE TRUTH SOUNDS BETTER COMING FROM AN ULAMA INSTEAD OF ME*

Concerning Marriage

Allah says in the Qur’an:

“And give the women their dowries as a present, but if they are happy to offer you any of it, accept with happiness and with wholesome pleasure” (Qur’an 4:4)

However the wife must obey her husband and support him. But this doesn’t mean that “obedience” referred to is not unquestioning obedience to whatever command the husband happens to give, but rather refers to accepting the husband’s decision as final.

Allah says in the Qur’an:

“And the believing men and the believing women, they are the friends of each other, they enjoin good and forbid evil, and establish prayers, and pay the alms, and obey God and His Messenger, these, upon them God will have mercy, indeed, God is almighty, All-wise.” (Qur’an 9:71)

Obedience of the husband is compulsory on the wife. If, without any lawful reason, she refuses to obey the orders of her husband, she will be liable to the Wrath and Curse of Allah until she returns to obedience.

The husband is given the permission in Islam to hit his wife (slightly) or stays away from her if she is recalcitrant. Nearly all modern Islamic scholars have agreed that these three steps must be taken in sequence. Meaning: first the husband sets out verbally why he thinks his wife’s conduct is wrong. If that doesn’t then he may separate from her in bed. If that still doesn’t work, then finally he may hit her (yet not harshly, just slightly to show her that she did something wrong).

However, “recalcitrance” is not simply disagreeing with the husband; it is rather a refusal to agree, a rejection of.

NO OBEDIENT WIFE IN A HUSBAND HEADED HOUSEHOLD, NO LAWFUL MARRIAGE.

Concerning Divorce

Divorce without lawful necessity and without first exhausting all the other means … of resolving the conflict is unlawful and is prohibited in Islam.” [al-Qaradawi: p. 212] Then, Islam has gone further to urge the people to deal with each other during and after the process of divorce humanely, decently – with dignity. (Qur’an 2:231)

NO SHURA, NO LAWFUL DIVORCE.

NO LAWFUL DIVORCE MEANS THE DIVORCE IS INVALID, MARRIAGE STILL EXISTS AND PERIOD OF IDAAT (WAITING PERIOD FOR YOU NEWBIES) HAS NOT EVEN BEGAN. THEREFORE THE INDIVIDUAL IS SUBJECT TO ABOVE RULES.

THIS IS SAD. VERY VERY SAD AND SICK. THIS IS WRITTEN THIS WAY TO CONCEAL THE TRUTH IN HOPES ALLAH WILL IGNORE IT LIKE THE ACTIONS OF OTHERS. I WOULD SAY HA, BUT THERE IS NO HUMOR, JUST SHAME.

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~ by siddiq khalifah on December 26, 2008.

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