Divorce, who’s to blame?

divorce

BOTH.

BEFORE WE BEGIN THESE WORDS ARE EQUALLY AS APPLICABLE TO ME AND MY COMPLETE DISREGARD FOR ALLAH AND THE DEEN OF ISLAM BY PARTICIPATING IN DIVORCE AS THEY ARE FOR YOU AND YOUR STILL DISBELIEVING SELVES! THE DIFFERENCE IS I ADMIT IT. HA. NO, ACTUALLY TEARS.

DIVORCE AS AN INSTITUTION IS A SHAME.

I EVEN FOUND A SITE THAT LETS YOU DOWNLOAD PAPERWORK FOR “TALUQ” OR “KHULAH”. DISGUSTING.

Whether it was mutual, someone left you or you left someone else.

It’s all the same.

Divorce is the most frowned upon permissible act in Islam.  Which basically means if God doesn’t like it , then…

Yeah…You don’t have to be a rocket scientist, ulama or self-proclaimed authority to figure that one out  STUPID!

If you participated in a divorce in any way, even against your will, then you (as I) am INEXCUSABLY wrong and am to blame for allowing the covenant that you (I)made to Allah-SWT with another individual to be broken.

It’ like accessory to MURDER, you don’t have to pull the trigger to be at fault.

It wasn’t a “trial”, “let me see how it goes”, ” I changed my mind” sort of arrangement. There wasn’t an “OUT CLAUSE”.

Feeling that “this isn’t the right person for me” AFTER-THE-FACT does not excuse or make divorce appropriate.  YOUR previous mistake isn’t an opportunity to justify making another one. You simply do the things neccesary to adjust or make the situation tolerable.

IT IS A TEST FROM ALLAH-SWT TO SEE HOW MUCH YOU BELIEVE IN HIM AND HIS AUTHORITY NOT YOU AND YOUR WILL.

STUPID!

And even in earnest if you unsuccessfully were able to avoid breaking that covenant or allowing your “teammate” to break that covenant then you are at fault and will be held accountable, both here and the hereafter.

Why are their problems with “custody” issues?

Because they shouldn’t exist altogether.

If you marry, you stay married AND IF YOU HAVE CHILDREN THEN…(freakin rocket scientist).

DIVORCE AND THE DISSOLUTION OF THE MOST IMPORTANT PRINCIPLE (HALF THE DEEN) OF ISLAM IS

COMPLETELY DEMONIC.

That’s why the children and everything else associated with life itself thereafter seems awkward, difficult like a burden AND FOR Y’ALL MULTIPLE OFFENDERS,

IT GETS WORSE AND MORE DAMAGING TO YOU, YOUR FAMILY, YOUR EXTENDED FAMILY, IN-LAWS, EX-IN-LAWS AND THE REST.

SICK.

Here’s some pros and cons on both side from my friends @sunniforum.

http://www.sunniforum.com/forum/showthread.php?t=22618

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~ by siddiq khalifah on December 14, 2008.

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